Sticks and Stones—by Jacques Genis
September 19, 2022
Sermon summary:
Matthew 12:34–37 We will be condemned or acquitted by our words. We will have to give account for every careless words we speak.
*Words reveal who we are in our hearts and character.
*Life is a string of unguarded moments where what's stored in our hearts.
Why don't we pay more attention?
*We under-estimate the impact of what we say.
James 3:2 We all stumble in our ways. Sometimes we will make mistakes, so don't judge someone else.
Proverbs 17:21 It has the power of life and death. Make an effort to create life in others.
Three things your words need to be:
- Cautious. Prov 28:20 not reckless. Think before speaking. We mean well, but sometimes the best form of encouragement is to say nothing at all. Pull up the handbrake (pray first before you speak; ask if it needs to said?).
- Honest. We are lied to between 10—200 times a day. Prov 12:17; Prov 16:13 Eph 4:25 Be truthful with who you are. There is a difference between what is true and truthful. Be honest with each other.
- Beneficial. Ephesians 4:29 Only what is helpful for building others up. Spur people on towards greater respect/love/good deeds.
Watch the full sermon here (starts at 42mins)
We are called to excel in the grace of giving—it’s not just a duty, but a spiritual act of worship. Be consistent and faithful in our giving. Set it aside intentionally, and don’t delay in fulfilling what you’ve committed to the Lord. Don't let your imperfect view of God impact your giving.
Changing takes courage—but parenting God’s way means choosing His path, and knowing where our help comes from. Righteousness is about healing and strengthening relationships, not achieving perfection. Don’t conform to the world’s ways—seek God’s perspective on parenting. Model the behaviour you want to see, and let His Word draw your heart to your children, and theirs to yours. Be present in their spiritual journey—it's not optional, it's your responsibility.
We are like broken pieces of pottery. God went looking for us, he found the fragments of our lives discarded by life/shame/disappointment, and put us back with the blood of Jesus. Treat each other not as broken but perfected through Christ.